Comments on: “Get him the help he needs!” http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/get-him-the-help-he-needs Addresses challenges faced by parents of children with Reactive Attachment Disorder and provides news and support. Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:13:41 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Nancy Spoolstra http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/get-him-the-help-he-needs/comment-page-1#comment-2491 Nancy Spoolstra Sat, 09 Jun 2007 17:01:51 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/06/08/get-him-the-help-he-needs#comment-2491 I know, I'm with you. I am going to try and get some folks to listen to me around here. How unbelievably sad that it takes something like this to use as leverage. It is hitting too close to home, isn't it? Steph works right up there where this happened. It is a parent's worse nightmare, to lose a child so senselessly. And the reality is that she did nothing wrong, she shouldn't have the expectation of having to carry mace or worry about being abducted in broad daylight in a pretty darn safe community. I know, I’m with you. I am going to try and get some folks to listen to me around here. How unbelievably sad that it takes something like this to use as leverage. It is hitting too close to home, isn’t it? Steph works right up there where this happened. It is a parent’s worse nightmare, to lose a child so senselessly. And the reality is that she did nothing wrong, she shouldn’t have the expectation of having to carry mace or worry about being abducted in broad daylight in a pretty darn safe community.

]]> By: Sunbonnet Sue http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/get-him-the-help-he-needs/comment-page-1#comment-2490 Sunbonnet Sue Sat, 09 Jun 2007 16:49:47 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/06/08/get-him-the-help-he-needs#comment-2490 The whole thing makes me sick to my stomach. The state has most likely been involved in this individuals life practically since birth. They had many opportunities to give help. They had all the information they needed to know who he was and the danger he presented. <br /> <br /> The girl he killed had just graduated from high school and was the third of five children. My third child of five just graduated from high school and frequents the area where this abduction occurred......as do most teens in this area.<br /> <br /> to say our family is furious would be an understatement. we know of another child, currently age 12, who is on the exact same trajectory as this young man. and there's nothing we can do, and they (state of KS) won't listen to us. their official position is: you cannot predict human behavior. bullhockey!<br /> <br /> rant rant, fume fume, vent vent....for all the good it does to waste energy this way. The whole thing makes me sick to my stomach. The state has most likely been involved in this individuals life practically since birth. They had many opportunities to give help. They had all the information they needed to know who he was and the danger he presented.

The girl he killed had just graduated from high school and was the third of five children. My third child of five just graduated from high school and frequents the area where this abduction occurred……as do most teens in this area.

to say our family is furious would be an understatement. we know of another child, currently age 12, who is on the exact same trajectory as this young man. and there’s nothing we can do, and they (state of KS) won’t listen to us. their official position is: you cannot predict human behavior. bullhockey!

rant rant, fume fume, vent vent….for all the good it does to waste energy this way.

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