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Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog

05/05/07

Poverty and Homelessness

Posted by : Nancy Spoolstra in Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog at 03:06 pm , 371 words, 144 views  
Categories: Teenagers
homelessI have spent a great deal of time lately working on a grant proposal to get VISTA volunteers for ATN. I absolutely hate anything business related and would far, far prefer to be doing the service side of things than the business side of things. Must be why they finally figured out towards the end of my time in vet school that it would be wise to teach vets to be business managers as well… it isn’t necessarily an inherent ability.


Anyway, as I was writing up the section on “Community Needs” I needed some statistics. According to Ohio State University…

The poverty rates of high school dropouts is three times higher than the poverty rate among high school graduates. In 1994 the poverty rate was 27% for men and 38% for women 25 to 54 years of age who did not finish high school.



Considering that my daughter just quit on high school for the second time…that hit pretty close to home.


Here’s another sad statistic…


34% of homeless young adults (ages 20-24) and 61% of homeless very young adults (ages 18-19) were in welfare/foster placement.

*from the Department of Sociology at Brown University

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Not a very pretty picture, is it? Much as I hate to say it or predict it, I suspect my daughter will be one of those statistics. She isn’t working nearly enough hours per week at her fast food job to maintain any kind of lifestyle. She has been living off of savings… or perhaps some “found money” that we became aware of that was in an Indiana bank… left over from our time there apparently. She has to submit some simple paperwork and if she does, she’ll collect over $2600. It would certainly pay her rent for a few months. Do you think she’ll send off the form? When we moved from Illinois to Kansas she didn’t bring her money with her… in spite of numerous reminders to do so. Of course, we “fixed” it again, and closed out her account. It was that money that she has been living off of this past year.


It makes me so sad to think about what lies ahead… I SO hope she proves me wrong.

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Comment from: Lindy [Member] Email
I was just wondering...at what point did you realize that your daughter would probably not successfully complete this chapter of her life? My daughter is almost 15 and I have already come to that conclusion. It sounds premature; but she simply shows no signs of motivation, future plans, succeeding at anything at all, etc.
She is in her little delusional world of "things will just fall in her lap" without any effort on her part. She blames everyone else for her failures and is angry all of the time. It has completely worn me out, both physically and emotionally.
PermalinkPermalink 05/05/07 @ 16:44
Comment from: eastern girl [Member] Email
The most useful thing I learned from an adolescent psychology course I recently took was " There is no guarantee your children will turn out the way you want them to."
This was a course on "normal" teens-how much more applicable is it to RAD teens?
But of course it still doesn't stop parents from worrying and grieving what might have been.
PermalinkPermalink 05/05/07 @ 17:29
Comment from: CREAMPUFF_SUGAR [Member] Email
Our local newspaper just had a story on two homeless teens --one who spent most of her life in foster care/group homes and the other who was adopted. Jose, the adopted child, admits that he refused to comply with family rules.
Here is the URL:

http://www.contracostatimes.com/search/ci_5727174

patricia
PermalinkPermalink 05/05/07 @ 17:41
Comment from: John [Member] Email
My middle son. age 22. did graduate, but has a number of psychiatric disorders. Like many young adults with problems that big, he self medicates (Crack). He has been homeless. He now gets SSI and lives in an inedpendent living home, which would not have worked without the reality of living on the street. Having a child on the street is more scary than anything I have lived through. Unfortunately, graduation only ensures a more educated homeless person. Good luck. John
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