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05/10/07

School circa 1904

Posted by : Nancy Spoolstra in Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog at 03:52 pm , 351 words, 211 views  
Categories: School, Nature vs. Nurture
penmanshipI just returned from a field trip with Beth all day today. We visited the Lanesfield School, a one-room Kansas schoolhouse circa 1904. Beth and her class did 4th grade work and the adults—teacher and parents—were the “older students” in 8th grade. We did math on slate boards with dinky little pieces of slate, wrote with pens dipped into inkwells and practiced our penmanship, had a spelling bee (where the “8th graders” went down on “belligerent” and “inaugural”), learned geography and discussed a passage we read, recited poems after the teacher, didn’t speak unless spoken to, had perfect posture with hands on our desks and feet flat on the floor, and played games at recess and had plenty of time to eat lunch (as opposed to 10 minutes.)


The teacher discussed punishment methods back then, which included some pretty harsh responses to disobedience or lack of preparation. I found myself wondering how some of “our kids” would have fared at a school like this.

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In actuality, there were no doubt fewer of “our kids.” The children who populated these small country schools were farm kids. They worked along side their parents as they all struggled to survive tough times. There was less time for “fluff” and more time dedicated to acquiring food and shelter—but no doubt some of these families were very loving and emotionally close. Society was vastly different back then. What parents expected from their children was quite different. As in this post where I mentioned Disneyland weekends and rooms full of the latest trendy items, kids today have no idea about life as compared to kids of yesteryear. There were no indulged children who attended this school, no matter how old they were or even how they joined their family. Respect and cooperation were not items to be negotiated and consequences for not cooperating were harsh and immediate.


Some children might have been adopted via the Orphan trains. Next up I’ll talk more about that…


By the way, the picture is from my workbook from class today. My writing has always been about third-grade style...

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Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
dood.
Your handwriting is neater than mine.
But, chickens writing cuneforms backwards have neater handwriting than I do.

Did they use corporal punishment a lot in those schools back then?
*reading a lot about corporal punishment and feeling DISTURBED*
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Comment from: Nancy Spoolstra [Member] Email · http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/
Yes they did. As explained by the teacher/historian today, they "didn't know then what we know now" and thought it was ok.
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Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
*shiver*
I'm positively horrified by this website with these people who believe in "training" a child as an infant!
With switches and the like. Even though they down play it, it cannot possibly be healthy.
I don't know why people also persist in insisting that infants manipulate their parents and shouldn't be picked up a lot.
That is a notion I really want to get rid of, along with these people scary ideas about child obediance...
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Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
Question:
When people say that they were spanked and turned out OK is this really the case or is it something they just don't think about too much?
Or are they just conditioned that way?
Does it have something to do with being securing attached to their parents or what? I'm totally against the practice, but it's interesting that so many people for it use that argument... I wonder if the problems i am having now relates to when I lived with my mother and she'd hit me, usually over things that were stupid...
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Comment from: Nancy Spoolstra [Member] Email · http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/
Spanking as it was usually done in the era of this classroom is a far different thing than parents "hitting" their kids out of frustration or lack of better parenting tools. Back then, kids knew the rules, knew what a "whipping" was for and, according to the teacher, rarely or never "cut out" to avoid the whipping. They took it because it was predictable and they had "wronged". I'm certainly not saying it was a great practice but how it is used makes a huge difference in how it works.
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Comment from: CREAMPUFF_SUGAR [Member] Email
Nancy, The field trip you described sounds wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing it.

Sometimes, I have to wonder, are things better in the schools than back then?

I also think that if my son, who is just venturing into schoolwork "the conventional way" would have the opportunity for some honest to goodness manual labor on a farm, well, I don't think that would be a bad thing...at least he would be developing skills.

patricia
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