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Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog

02/19/08

See ya later but not goodbye?

Posted by : Nancy Spoolstra in Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog at 01:14 pm , 730 words, 2615 views  
Categories: A Day in the Life ...
In late November, I wrote this blog entry and discussed the fact that I needed a blogging break. Many of you concurred. I cut my blog entries in half in December, fully expecting to resume full speed ahead in January. It didn’t happen. Here we are, approaching the end of February, and I am still struggling to get posts written on a regular basis.

Perhaps it has something to do with the additional time and energy requirements imposed by adding Dora last fall. Perhaps it has to do with Kyle and Marie moving back close to home last December, or the holiday hustle and bustle. Maybe it is my recent surgery and the physical and emotional energy utilized for healing and recovery. Of course, homeschooling Beth has impacted my time expenditure.

Alternatively, it could be the fact that, having given up on ever getting Java (our recently purchased Quarter horse) in our old two-horse straight load trailer, we just made a deposit on the most incredible new (used) 3-horse slant with living quarters … and I am spending very happy times cruising the Internet, checking out all the trail riding options (and perhaps open horse shows) available within a few hours of driving from my home. Last Sunday, we headed out to drive 7.5 hours to St. Paul, MN, to see a horse in Des Moines on the way, a horse in the St. Paul area, and then have dinner with Stephanie. A bad snowstorm aborted our plans, and we returned home. We tried again yesterday, driving just to Des Moines to see the first horse. We are looking for another one like Java … but this horse wasn’t it. But it is very fun finding them online and scoping them out. Not many families spend the entire day in a car to go check out a horse … but what can I say?

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Maybe I’m blogging less because I want to rediscover my embroidery machine. I have actually signed up for an embroidery demo in late March; however, in perusing trail riding opportunities, I found this late March ride benefiting kids with cerebral palsy. If we do this ride, I’ll have to cancel my embroidery class. It means I have a little over a month to pick up our new trailer (it is in Indianapolis, by the way—we found it while I was there for my surgery last week), get shoes on both horses, get our equipment together, get the horses in slightly better physical shape, etc. etc. etc.

I think Beth and I will try to go … is anyone interested in helping us raise money for CP? (Email me if you are ... I'd like to raise as much as possible!)

Remember when I told you about my trip with my mom last year? We are doing it again this year … only instead of horseback riding in Florida, we are cruising in Mexico. I know, it’s rough, but someone has to do it. I leave in a few days. I don’t really think I want to blog while I’m on the ship … sorry, guys … I can’t seem to find the motivation to write blogs in advance … it would cut into my time cruising the Internet for trail-broke horses and upcoming trail rides. I also want to embroider a “Beth’s Mom” swim t-shirt for me to wear to her Division II championship meet this weekend. Maybe I can find time to order wedding pictures from Kyle and Marie's May 2006 wedding ... do ya think? Or create the photo show of pictures I promised my vet school classmates at our reunion last October.

So, guess what? I am taking a REAL blogging break. Rather than quit entirely, I have reached an agreement with the folks here at adoption.com to just take a sabbatical for now. I will regroup in a month or six weeks, and see where I stand. In the meantime, I plan to lighten my load as much as possible and revisit the hobbies and pastimes I once enjoyed.

Hang in there ... I know many of you are struggling. I'm sorry to pull any source of support out from under you. If you haven't found the support available through ATN, please check it out.

Hopefully I'll see you again in the not-to-distant future, rejuvenated and ready to write!

Photo Credit ... our new home-away-from-home

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: BEACHLADY [Member] Email
I really just don't know how you find enough hours in the day to do all you do!!!
Enjoy your time away from blogging!!!
I will certainly miss reading your posts!
PermalinkPermalink 02/19/08 @ 14:13
Comment from: Kelly [Member] Email · http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com
Enjoy your horses and kiddos. Remember, you can come riding in Wisconsin, if the snow ever melts that is.
PermalinkPermalink 02/19/08 @ 15:20
Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
what? and leave all this? just for a lousy cruise and some horse riding/shopping? I'm shocked. truly shocked.........

which of course, I'll be able to express my level of shock more completely in a couple of hours, when I come over for a bowl of homemade soup.
PermalinkPermalink 02/19/08 @ 16:17
Comment from: fenyimom [Member] Email
I'm just boggling after reading this -

"I think Beth and I will try to go … is anyone interested in helping us raise money for CP?"

followed by this -
"I also want to embroider a “Beth’s Mom” swim t-shirt for me to wear to her Division II championship meet this weekend. "

What is Dora doing while you are traveling all over the place and doing fun things with Beth? Waiting until she has earned the right to be part of your family? Unbelievable.

PermalinkPermalink 02/19/08 @ 18:39
Comment from: pat johnston [Member] Email · http://www.perspectivespress.com
What a lovely bon voyage message Fenyi.

Nancy, you need and deserve a break. Have a good one, and draw your family close around you.

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PermalinkPermalink 02/19/08 @ 20:06
Comment from: guppy [Member] Email
Have fun; I am definitely jelaous... How cool is your business with horses?! Way too cool.
PermalinkPermalink 02/19/08 @ 20:19
Comment from: Lindy [Member] Email
Enjoy....sounds wonderful. I'll look forward to reading all about your activities, etc. It's nice to be able to get away from the norm and do a little soul renewal.
PermalinkPermalink 02/19/08 @ 21:42
Comment from: my2rubies [Member] Email
Enjoy your break, Nancy.

As for Dora, work on the relationship first, the behaviors will come...you'll see. It's not an either-or.
PermalinkPermalink 02/20/08 @ 06:24
Comment from: Jenna Hatfield [Member] Email · http://birthparents.adoptionblogs.com/
Enjoy your time, Nancy. We all need it. :)
PermalinkPermalink 02/20/08 @ 11:55
Comment from: Cindy Bodie [Member] Email · http://older-child.adoptionblogs.com
I'm going to miss your posts but I truly understand your reasoning.
PermalinkPermalink 02/20/08 @ 12:48
Comment from: deb donatti [Member]
Enjoy your time Nancy!
You certianly deserve it.
PermalinkPermalink 02/20/08 @ 19:25
Comment from: Stefanie [Member] Email
Enjoy your break, Nancy - it's well deserved!
Thanks for your wonderful recent blogs. I haven't been commenting (you cover all my questiions!) but I've been reading and learnig! I look forward to more when you've finished your sabbatical!
I'm very jealous of you with your new trailer - it sounds fantastic ;~) Have fun with the horses and I hope you find another perfect partner.
Good luck with everything over the next while!

~Stef
PermalinkPermalink 02/28/08 @ 14:00
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