Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog

01/16/07

The Photo Shoot

Posted by : Nancy Spoolstra in Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog at 09:36 am , 320 words, 56 views  
Categories: My family
Photo shootBeth and I headed out the door this morning on this frigid, 8 degree day… She has a modeling job and her call time was 8:30 AM. After nearly sliding down a hill, we made it. She is making good money and learning a lot about taking direction and being “professional”. It is too cool to watch her. This Saturday she does a job for the same folks, only instead of print work (what we are doing today) it will be a video.


I’m crazy about photography and I am really enjoying watching this unfold. The photographer is awesome and does mostly national work. And Beth is putting away college money and will be allowed to keep 10% of her earnings after expenses. She’s excited to be able to buy gifts for family birthdays and Christmas!


Beth is on a break now as they are redesigning the set. I brought work to do but can’t seem to get motivated. OK… on to something besides bragging on Beth. (The hairstylist said, “You two don’t like each other much, do you?” after watching Beth land on my lap between shoots…!)

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The other girl in the photo shoot is a blond haired, blue-eyed beauty. Her “clone” sister, a high school student, was her chauffeur. The two look exactly alike. And that fact wasn’t lost on Beth. Once again she was faced with a reminder that in many families, people “match” and that these two girls can just look at each other and see shared characteristics. I know what she was thinking… even though she didn’t say anything other than to comment on how much they looked alike. As I mentioned in a previous post… imagine having to wait until you have a child to see someone who looks like you.


Well, she doesn’t look like me… but have I mentioned how crazy I am about this child?


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Comment from: MamaS [Member] Email
Don't hold your breath waiting for a birth match! My Salvadoran daughter (black eyes, brown skin, curly black hair) has a son with fair skin, green eyes and reddish-brown hair. Just start now and tell her what I told my daughters: "Some people have matching faces -- in our family we have matching hearts."
PermalinkPermalink 01/16/07 @ 10:45
Comment from: eastern girl [Member] Email
My husband and I and our oldest son are dark-haired, medium height, and extroverted. My younger son came along: tall, blond, and quiet. I remember asking one day,"How did you get in this family, baby? Well, never mind, you're here now." And he is our biological child!
PermalinkPermalink 01/16/07 @ 11:54
Comment from: Julie [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
I have a stepdaughter with red hair and fair complexion. No traces of that from her bio parents...it obviously came from me!

I like the "matching hearts" comment...would make a great t-shirt for the family!
PermalinkPermalink 01/16/07 @ 15:11
Comment from: klkillian [Member] Email
We have the exact oppositte. Our kids match us. Not intentionally, just the way God sent them to us. I didn't even notice how much our son looks like my hubby until people pointed it out to us. Then came son number 2 who was a carbon copy of me. Then came daughter number one who is bi-racial, but still looked like hubby with dark hair, and fairly pale skin. Now daughter number 2 looks like me.

Because our kids always "matched" we didn't have to deal with this. Beth knows how much you adore her, and I'm sure that matters more to her than matching you.
PermalinkPermalink 01/17/07 @ 08:15
Comment from: sltgjt [Member] Email
How did you get beth into modeling? I would love to do this with my girl, but don't know where to start?
PermalinkPermalink 01/17/07 @ 15:04
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