Comments on: This really is good-bye … http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye Addresses challenges faced by parents of children with Reactive Attachment Disorder and provides news and support. Sat, 14 Nov 2009 20:16:58 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: nancyatn http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1052 nancyatn Tue, 29 Jul 2008 03:35:00 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1052 To the last two commenters ... I did not stop blogging here because of the naysayers ... I stopped because my life required that I stop ... I needed to take some time for myself. I am considering blogging on the ATN website but haven't really started it yet. Perhaps in the not-to-distant future. To morris ... you inquired about a good book on RAD ... what exactly are you looking for? A personal story, an explanation of how it develops, a parenting approach ... please narrow it down. <br /> <br /> Nancy To the last two commenters … I did not stop blogging here because of the naysayers … I stopped because my life required that I stop … I needed to take some time for myself. I am considering blogging on the ATN website but haven’t really started it yet. Perhaps in the not-to-distant future. To morris … you inquired about a good book on RAD … what exactly are you looking for? A personal story, an explanation of how it develops, a parenting approach … please narrow it down.

Nancy

]]> By: morris52302 http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1051 morris52302 Mon, 28 Jul 2008 16:06:51 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1051 Hi...New to this blog. What do others recommend for a good book on RAD? Hi…New to this blog. What do others recommend for a good book on RAD?

]]> By: mlmckenna http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1050 mlmckenna Tue, 22 Jul 2008 01:00:41 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1050 As a brand new member, I've been perusing your posts, Nancy. Sounds like it takes guts to talk about RAD behavior problems even on this blog. I read some comments that sound like my kids' teachers when they scold me about not being nurturing enough, not giving enough positive reinforcement. And when I talk about the Power and Control issues their eyes glaze over and I feel sure they scorn me. I try to remember that what I am made to feel like is probably exactly what my 3 kids feel: insecure, vulnerable and somewhat justified [because I know something the teachers don't know].<br /> My identification with you, Nancy, leads me to hope that you are not taking a sabbatical because of the unaware people in the world. If they lived with a child with RAD, they would recognize your descriptions without criticism. I just discovered your blog, and I need to communicate with as many people as can truly understand. I hope you can regenerate and come back in. As a brand new member, I’ve been perusing your posts, Nancy. Sounds like it takes guts to talk about RAD behavior problems even on this blog. I read some comments that sound like my kids’ teachers when they scold me about not being nurturing enough, not giving enough positive reinforcement. And when I talk about the Power and Control issues their eyes glaze over and I feel sure they scorn me. I try to remember that what I am made to feel like is probably exactly what my 3 kids feel: insecure, vulnerable and somewhat justified [because I know something the teachers don't know].
My identification with you, Nancy, leads me to hope that you are not taking a sabbatical because of the unaware people in the world. If they lived with a child with RAD, they would recognize your descriptions without criticism. I just discovered your blog, and I need to communicate with as many people as can truly understand. I hope you can regenerate and come back in.

]]> By: sheriv http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1049 sheriv Fri, 06 Jun 2008 21:04:16 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1049 You know there is a reason for everything.... I write for myself, discovered the ATN and have been blessed and now accidentally end up here to find your ending your blog.... Maybe I can try to do my piece to share my journey and help others in their journey of RAD parenting.<br /> <br /> Thanks Nancy for all you do.......<br /> <br /> Sheri You know there is a reason for everything…. I write for myself, discovered the ATN and have been blessed and now accidentally end up here to find your ending your blog…. Maybe I can try to do my piece to share my journey and help others in their journey of RAD parenting.

Thanks Nancy for all you do…….

Sheri

]]> By: paulukon http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1048 paulukon Fri, 11 Apr 2008 16:13:20 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1048 You will be missed by me, too! Just the other day I was reminded of you and wondered why I hadn't seen any messages lately. I found the website back and realized I'd forgotten your last post. So I was excited to see a new one...but disappointed by the title. Good luck! And if anyone else starts blogging on RAD for adoptionblogs, I hope a post is put on this one to let us know. You will be missed by me, too! Just the other day I was reminded of you and wondered why I hadn’t seen any messages lately. I found the website back and realized I’d forgotten your last post. So I was excited to see a new one…but disappointed by the title. Good luck! And if anyone else starts blogging on RAD for adoptionblogs, I hope a post is put on this one to let us know.

]]> By: Lindy http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1047 Lindy Fri, 11 Apr 2008 05:13:27 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1047 Nancy....your've been a friend when I needed a friend. It's been such a pleasure reading about your family and learning more about RAD. Thank you for sharing and being real. I wish you and your family the happiest of times. Nancy….your’ve been a friend when I needed a friend. It’s been such a pleasure reading about your family and learning more about RAD. Thank you for sharing and being real. I wish you and your family the happiest of times.

]]> By: jpdakota http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1046 jpdakota Fri, 11 Apr 2008 02:19:20 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1046 Godspeed, Nancy.<br /> JP Godspeed, Nancy.
JP

]]> By: Sunbonnet Sue http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1045 Sunbonnet Sue Fri, 11 Apr 2008 01:22:03 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1045 sounds like you've been having a smashing good time! <br /> <br /> awareness of attachment issues is on the rise, and you have played a big part in that trend. <br /> <br /> moms with intense personalities and high expectations for their kids needed someone to step up. Thanks for being that person for our family! sounds like you’ve been having a smashing good time!

awareness of attachment issues is on the rise, and you have played a big part in that trend.

moms with intense personalities and high expectations for their kids needed someone to step up. Thanks for being that person for our family!

]]> By: condo-mom http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1044 condo-mom Thu, 10 Apr 2008 22:33:15 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1044 I've learned a lot from you also Nancy. Thank you for continuing your good work with ATN. I hope someday to make it to an ATN Conference. And I hope all the time and investment in getting your horses and trailers operational pays off -- have fun !! -- Rachel<br /> I’ve learned a lot from you also Nancy. Thank you for continuing your good work with ATN. I hope someday to make it to an ATN Conference. And I hope all the time and investment in getting your horses and trailers operational pays off — have fun !! — Rachel

]]> By: MamaS http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/this-really-is-good-bye/comment-page-1#comment-1043 MamaS Thu, 10 Apr 2008 17:29:59 +0000 http://reactive-att.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/this-really-is-good-bye#comment-1043 Your common sense and honesty made your writing memorable. I wish you good health and a peaceful life. Your common sense and honesty made your writing memorable. I wish you good health and a peaceful life.

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