Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog

04/10/07

What constitutes abuse or household dysfunction? (The ACE Study)

Posted by : Nancy Spoolstra in Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog at 08:34 am , 338 words, 145 views  
Categories: Understanding attachment, Trauma, Adverse Childhood Experiences Study (ACE)
beaverThe Adverse Childhood Experiences Study is an ongoing evaluation of the effects of less-than-optimal childhoods on adult mental and physical health. I am fascinated by this study, for it is proving to be a good indicator of the price our society pays for not addressing the needs of our children when they are still children! How many of us have lobbied and begged and pleaded and cajoled and threatened and sued our schools and mental health professionals in an attempt to get them to sit up and take notice of the special needs of our children? Why is this such a mystery to so many people? How can anyone expect that a child who grows up in or is exposed during critical developmental phases to a dysfunctional household (or a neglectful institution) is going to be as healthy as a child who is fortunate enough to be raised by healthy, functional parents?


Ahhh… it is the latter “category” that so confuses people. Don’t you know that kids are “resilient”? Don’t you know that if you take Johnny out of the alcoholic, abusive, pointing fingercrack-cocaine and rodent-infested environment when he is three and plunk him in the Beaver Cleaver household,
he’ll forget all that nasty stuff in his past? And if he doesn’t, it is because YOU didn’t parent him correctly or love him enough?


This study will show otherwise… It states:


The abuse categories were: recurrent physical abuse, recurrent emotional abuse, and sexual abuse. The five categories of household dysfunction were: growing up in a household where someone was in prison; where the mother was treated violently; with an alcoholic or a drug user; where someone was chronically depressed, mentally ill, or suicidal; and where at least one biological parent was lost to the patient during childhood—regardless of the cause.

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Note that last category… “where at least one biological parent was lost to the patient during childhood—regardless of the cause.” WOW. Right there you have all our kids.

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Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
*shakes head*
One would think it's OBVIOUS. Like reading this book, Adopting the Hurt Child. I find myself yelling, Why aren't they implimenting the things these people suggest? It's been driving me insane since the age of six. Why should kids suffer like this because the system won't do all it can to help children, and it puts the blame on the shoulders of people who ARE helping children, who are trying to raise kids who have been so wounded and instead of getting support they are getting treated like steaming dogcrap.
It's deeply infuriating and I wish there was SOMETHING I could do about it.
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Comment from: Nancy Spoolstra [Member] Email · http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/
Join ATN and help us raise our collective voices!!! Together we make much more noise!
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Comment from: kburch [Member] Email
"The five categories of household dysfunction were"... ALL present in my kids' lives for long periods of time. ALL 5! And I still find myself feeling guilty for thinking that there's something 'wrong' with them, and it's not just me. Crazy, isn't it??
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Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
How do I join?

It should be obvious to the people in charge that change is needed.
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Comment from: Nancy Spoolstra [Member] Email · http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/
Go here: http://www.radzebra.org/contactjoin.htm

Thanks for asking!
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