Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog

07/09/07

Will no one be there for me?

Posted by : Nancy Spoolstra in Reactive Attachment Disorder Blog at 11:46 am , 454 words, 109 views  
Categories: The System, Adoption/Attachment Studies
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Part Two

Continuing with the series addressing the difficulties in establishing collaboration between child welfare systems and juvenile justice systems, the second point addressed by the author of this article states:


Youth in foster care often appear in court without family or child welfare representatives.


I guess I must run in special circles, because the vast majority of families who have crossed my path are doing everything they can and then some to advocate for their kids. However, I have come to realize that it is those extra-special families who are interested enough in their foster kids to go the extra (thousand) miles who do search out resources. Apparently there are many disinterested foster families.


Youth interviewed for this article state their opinion that showing up for court with absolutely no one there on your behalf except your public defender or guardian ad litem makes a strong case to the judge that you—the youth—is without value. Otherwise, surely someone would be there with you, right? Judges support this view, stating that they view youth who appear before them with no family members in tow as less “stable” than kids who appear with a family member or two.


The last sentence of this section really bothers me:


Young adults generally believed that foster parents did not appear with them in court because they did not care about the youth or did not want to get involved in legal proceedings.

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Again, most of the foster/adoptive families I have met would welcome the opportunity to have more involvement, more input, more impact on the trajectory of their child in the juvenile justice system.


The third point discussed in this article states:

Youth would benefit significantly from improved coordination between systems.


In many cases, child welfare and juvenile justice systems share legal responsibility for a youth arrested for criminal behavior. Even if the juvenile justice system has physical custody of the child, the welfare system is not off the hook. But caseworkers admit that once physical custody is transferred, a social worker’s involvement adjusts accordingly. Given that so many social workers are incredibly over-extended and they cannot or do not attend to even their most pressing cases, it isn’t hard to grasp that once a child is not in their physical custody, they invest little or no additional time into that child. One administrator said, “ … for the most part, the attitude is, ‘No longer on my caseload, I am done with this one.’”


Significant gaps in service occur because even if the two branches recognize and acknowledge their dual responsibilities, they are uncertain about how to manage those dual roles.


I will conclude this series in the next post.


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Comment from: nancyderen [Member] Email
Around here, many foster families do seem to have much less interest in the foster kids than in their bio kids, and also give them up very often for fairly minor issues. My daughter and all the other kids in the group home she came from had all bounced around so many different foster homes, and most of the kids then left the group home after several years of intense treatment only to continue bouncing through foster home after foster home. One foster family told me they had to give the 8 year old girl up after 3 weeks because she expected a whole hour of reading at bedtime, and that was just too much time (for the first ten weeks, it took 5-6 hours to get my daughter to bed each night- I would have killed for a one hour bedtime process! Even now, two years later, we spend at least an hour reading, singing, praying, and cuddling as our bedtime routine). I also know some very loving foster parents who still can't stop themselves from yelling, "I'm going to send you back to Children's Aid!" during arguments on a regular basis. And several doctors have said to me, "It's unusual to see an adoptive mom so dedicated and loving. Usually the adoptive and foster moms we see with the older kids don't seem to care." So sadly, it seems there are a lot of cases out there that fit what this author was saying.
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